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What Is Parentification? How Being the ‘Responsible One’ in Childhood Impacts You as an Adult
If you were the one who had to “have it together” as a kid… this one’s for you.
Maybe you were the emotional support for a parent who couldn't cope. Or the fixer in your family, stepping in when adults didn’t—or wouldn’t—take responsibility. You didn’t get to just be a child. You were the listener, the caretaker, the peacekeeper.
And now, as an adult? You’re exhausted. Over-responsible. Emotionally hyper-aware but deeply disconnected from your own needs. This is parentificati
Phillippa Chinery
Sep 1, 20253 min read
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